Lately hubby and I have been drawing closer to our faith which I love. He spent almost $500 on books!!!
SubhanAllah. I’m soo so so excited. I love asking him questions and picking his brains. I’ve also been contemplating how I acted towards Umm Kasem. Maybe it’s a lack of humbleness, but I don’t feel bad. Maybe I should pray more. There are only benefits in salah.
I kind of miss her and her ghetto-ness. Maybe I’m psychotic, having a breakdown. I talked to Naim about it. He said absolutely not, and for me to get over it 
. He thinks it’s gross that she doesn’t bathe every day. He also doesn’t trust her. I told him maybe we should give it another try and he gave me a bad look. Work is fine. I love the little girl I take care of so much. I was so happy to see her. She saw me and came running to me saying, ” Auntie 7abibti” 
I love her. It makes me pray for my own child one day inshAllah. Today I almost wrote Umm Kasem, but I didn’t because I think Naim would be angry. I need to get a hobby!
I’m so confused why would u want to give a ghetto hoodtastic foodstamp selling weed smokin , stripper boots wearing girl another chance? Chance at what? To ruin your life? Let it go. She doesn’t sound like she is wrapped too tight, if this is the person who will be stepmom to kids don’t u want better for them? Trust me there are many others out there . Take your time there is no pressure in it.
LOOLLL You crack me up!!!
i agree with jaiyana, how could you want to have her back after all the problems she caused???
you just feel guilty at the moment because you conscience is eating at you. imagine 10 or 20 years from now: if she stinks now how will she be then, how respectful will her 4 kids be, i don’t know but if i had a chance of getting married even while i had 4 kids i would be trying my best to nip all my bad habits in the bud. at least i could take a shower!!! trust me a girl like that will play nice with you but then talk bad about you to your husband when you are not there, planting little lies. trust instead of sisterhood it would be a war, with naim being the prize. i don’t think you want to go there
Are you NUTS?!?! Giving HER a second chance!? Babe, as soon as she went about unislamically contacting and conversing with your husband, it was a DEFINITE NO-NO. Especially that comment she made in the car when she was alone with him!!!! Don’t you ever forget that and go giving around second chances!!! Subhana’Allah! There IS such a saying that sometimes, being too trusting to people becomes bad for you!