A good man

OK so maybe I was tripping when you look at the cold facts.

I guess I just started to feel bad for some of her situation. I guess I should put an explanation- examples or whatever of why Naim dropped her like a bad habit.

I think I mentioned already the fact that she didn’t bathe the first few days. He was just disgusted by that. We only know that she technically did the day I was home. Naim just said I can’t imagine being married to a woman like that.

I have already mentioned that I had friday off for work. So I was in the kitchen cooking, and I kept going to the living room. My kitchen is open, and I can look out on the living room. My good friend Ama ( I think this is what I named her here, if not sorry for the mix up, but she also lives in the same apt complex as us) was there too.  Ama  and Umm Kasem kept switching off using my laptop. I kept hearing a song go off on her phone. It was India.Arie. I used to be a huge fan so I’d recognize her voice anywhere. I said ” Oh, I know that song that India Arie – GoodMan” I teased her and said is that your baby daddy’s ( I think I mentioned before that she doesn’t like calling him ex husband, she prefers baby daddy, whatever)ring tone? She said no. I just heard her argue with her baby daddy, and that song had came up. She later said my song for him is some rap song ” That’s just my baby daddy” which I didn’t hear all week, honestly. I know the song, I’m the oldest of 5 little hip hop heads. Here are the into lyrics to the song

“I remember the first day
I met you
we were so young
you were a blessing
and there was no guessing
you were the one”

It’s a sweet song. I just wonder why she lied. I may not be from the “hood”, but I’m not an idiot.

I mentioned it to Ama later she said she heard it too. I told Naim about it the day she left. He said yeah I kept hearing that song go off in the car, and all morning. He said I feel there is something more going on with her and him. It doesn’t sit right with me. He didn’t like that she always has her phone with her and he was talking to her she said she was in the car with her ride. Then he kept calling her to get her bus info( she was originally going to take Greyhound), she didn’t answer the phone. He said she always picks up first or second ring. When she called him back 30 minutes later it was silent and she said she was on a city bus. He said it gave him pause, because within minutes she was magically in the car with her ride again who ended up being her baby daddy.

Another concern he had was her scams…. I have to finish this later. A certain little girl needs me

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