Hey everyone! I’m back. My life has been chaotic and stressful. I thought I was going to lose my mother. She was in the ICU. My good friend died of cancer. My heart was just broken. I’m not getting back in the swing of things. Ok update on Naim and I.
We are still together. He hasn’t been physical with me sense that night. I’m looking for a taser gun in case that changes. I let him know if there was a next time he would not only be going to jail, but I’d stun his ass. And then call my crazy cousins from East St. Louis to have a talk with him. I believe that we are just different people, and this isn’t going to work. I’m saving my money, so that when my job moves to Baltimore in a year, I can just pick up and go.
I’m young, positive, and I believe( and have been told) a nice person. I don’t want to waste my youth and life on someone who doesn’t deserve me.
Did I mention the serial wannabe polygamist is talking to another sister LOL
This one has 5 kids. SubhanAllah this just keeps getting better. I wonder if he is planning on moving them into my living room. I suggested it. I told him we could make it a huge bedroom. How cute? I told him let me know what colors they want the living room. i’ll even put up animal decals on the walls if he’d like.
LOL.
Hope everyone is well.
Subhana’Allah, this post REEKED of sarcasm. I have absolutely no idea how you handle all this… other than the fact that you are seriously strong… and because Allah is probably either testing you, cleansing you of your sins, or just simply making you stronger in your iman and taqwa. I hope it’s all of these reasons!
But you are completely right: if Naim doesn’t change himself and go about other marriages the right way and doesn’t take care of you properly… then make istikhara first before you completely decide to do anything. Insha’Allah, things will fall in the right place and Allah will take care of you. May Allah ease your difficulties and not burden you with anything that is more than you can bear. AMEEN.
Hi amina,
I am glad that you are feeling better. i hope that my past posts have not offended you. i know i offended your friend 3′o’ clock. and i am sorry for that but what i suggested before is what i still suggest to you my sister!
may ALLAH (SWT) lead you to the path that is best for you and Naim.
Your sarcasm slays me! Don’t know how you keep cool. Tough stuff.
Wow, some big things happened between Jan and March! I missed something. I was enjoying your posts and your funny stories about Umm Kasem then it all changed.
I was sorry to read of your struggles, friend, mom and apparently serious husband issues. May Allah bless you, sister.
N.