I feel sick. Naim is on his way to meet ANOTHER potential. He’s been chatting with her for a few months. She is a new shahadah. She seems different from the others. She’s younger than me, and I am not old. I’m 26. She has 1 kid. I guess it’s better than Umm Kasem’s 4. She lives about an hour from us. From what I can tell this one doesn’t send inappropriate pictures of herself, and she doesn’t leave nasty messages. She added me on facebook yesterday I accepted. I’m not sure why. She sends me friendly text messages. I don’t know why I am no longer angry about this. Allahu Alim.
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Frankly, I don’t know what to comment anymore. I’ll make du’a for you insha’Allah.
Hey sweetie. I pray that things get better for you. As always I am here for you.
As Salaamu Alaikum!
Insha Allah, this one will work out, so you could move on in your life. I know it must be very difficult always wondering if and when he will marry another. It would probably be easier for you, if he would just do it and be done with it; I’m sure.
The dating part is not good. Did he ever consider doing it the proper way. He need to speak with a woman’s wali, and not communicate with her. He could just be ruining his soul the more he meet these women and establish relationships that aren’t fruitful.
Oh, well, as I stated I hope for your sake and sanity, he gets it together soon.
Hang in there, my friend.